Never fear - you're among friends here!

Many of us find we can share things on this forum that we don't discuss with people near to us because they have little-or-no understanding of the problems & triumphs. It's incredible the strength we derive from being heard & understood by our fellow travelers!
p.s. It was one of my favorite things too, OM2W, but I
DO think your oatmeal could be sabotaging your BGs . . . you could go without for a few days & see if your numbers improve. Oats are another of those cereal grains like wheat & rice which can really smack our numbers around.