Oh man we all hate this phase. First off trying to come out of this phase I can tell you be happy she does test 3 times a day... I have been a week without testing once (no im not proud of it but it happens), iv been threatened by doctors about the driving deal, and heard every speech you can imagine about limbs. To be honest, if she is anything like me it won't work much. I don't know how her A1C is but my ended up being 6.7, no one really knows how i pull it off because they got mad when I tell them I bolus from my guesstimation i made on food and correct for how i feel. coming from the stand point of someone trying to pull out of this stage rather then being a mother I can only say it's a hard time... and nothing can really happen till she gets the motivation to do it herself. How active is she? the could only conclude that it was (my a1c) where it was because of sports and activity. She will realize she needs to get her diabetes in order and will change... trust me. good luck and feel free to pm me if you need help!